Obsession – Mindfulness – Middle way
Anybody who try to learn / practice Buddhism by oneself, to find the measure of Middle way
while committing so-called Mindfulness, but not in obsessive extreme, is not easy.
To biggin with Mindfulness, to learn what is the Mindfulness is hard enough, —— in fact, to understand
what is Mindfulness —— is already somewhere middle of the way reaching to the Enlightenment !
Most obvious and common mistake to learn Mindfulness is, to mix-up it with the concentration.
Concentration with passion and enthusiasm.( in another word, with Emotion )
Far from it, it is the result / even a by-product of the Mushin ——Once the Mind has gone, so nothing to
think about though, something left in the hand or very front of you—— so, just do it.
Mindfulness is not the concentration of the mind, but simply nothing else is there.
It may look utterly strange though, to learn Mindfulness, first, start to do a boring useless
practice, repeat and repeat again until your mind become insensitive and able to do it without
thinking —–> and able to see the task with completely emptied brain / Blank Space ——-
The task may seem something foreign or looks even first time to see ( by the newly acquired
Open–eyes / Dispassionate eyes ) —–> as nothing else is in your mind,so
just deal with ” this, only the Task.”
Hence, nothing else there, the eyes, attention everything goes into it, down to the minute details.
( Eyes sees what you want to see, but Dispassionate eyes sees everything on front, as it is )
To somebody-else’s eyes, it may seem too much. To clean the kitchen down to a minute water-mark
may seem to be a Compulsive cleanness Obsession / Mental Disorder though, never mind, as long
as it wouldn’t take more than 10 minutes after a cooking or eating, it is just a normal practice.
If it goes hours everyday —— m m m ?
What is extreme, where is the Middle way is just an arbitrary view. Often, the cleanness obsession
of Japanese frighten the westerners, (you may not know, they carry a wet tissue with disinfectant to clean
their hand after shake hand with unknown person. They are only the people using disposal toilet seat cover)
but it is normal, among the Japanese. This is the reason why they are even reluctant to shake hand, or
share the bottle and drink direct from it (touch somebody-else’s saliva ) let alone kissing to other person !
( It is originated from deep sublimated Japanese Shinto ” Avoid the foreign dirt and keep you clean “)
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Where to draw the line and stay in Middle way, is not rigidly fixed. Since, the fundamentals of the Buddhism
is not torment you with complicated rules, but to liberate your mind. Try extreme will definitely taxing your
body and mind, but obviously dirty kitchen would cause your ill-health. So, here is clear Middle ground.
Do what you think appropriate. Observe who you are, and if it is acceptable for you, do your best.
( So, to a Japanese, Clean it when it was soiled may be a Middle way, and to a Hippie guy clean the
kitchen once in a week may be his Middle way —- though it’s a huge leap to clean it first time ever. 🙂 )
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While observing your own tasks, re-arrange the order, or a way to sort the memos, even the position
to stick those memo, or the way to respond the Emails etc, and making it easier and smoother to
deal, —— if the situation is getting better, its mean your Mindful approach is working.
And when you established a system to deal with those tasks, and able to sort them quite business-like,
almost automatic way, in fact you are processing it, in the Mushin manner. —Why not it is efficient.
Difference of the Mushin to machine is, as the eyes is completely open, it is possible to spot
anything peculiar or the point to pay attention. This is what makes the human different from a machine.
—– So, keep you busy. 🙂
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For me, to deal with this Blog is hard enough. So that I’m not familiar with twitsphere.
Still, it is good to be seen by more people. ( And this post was happened to be
a simple digest of Buddhist’s practice and its effect ! )
Good. Thank you.
___/\___ Yoshizen
PS : Only the trouble is, as I’m not familiar with Twitter and couldn’t see what others
said ——– I have no idea whats going on 😀
This is the exact situation, Have a Simple Life. If it is not on front, it is not exists.
To minding what not exists ——- Buddhists call it Delusion.