WEDDING
There is a nice Buddhist story ———-
” When two Buddhist monks came to a river crossing they found a woman having difficulty to cross the
rapid water. One of the monk offered his back to carry her to other side. After this, another monk started
to accuse him ” Oh, you have broken the rule. You touched the woman ” He replied ” Are you still
carrying the woman in your back ?” ——– ( When you see a woman in trouble, to help her is your task
on front of you. And when the woman is off your back. Woman is no longer there. If not there, its not there.
Only the mind keep the woman still existing.)
There was my friend’s wedding. ( So, the man and the woman decided to carry each other in body and the
soul ——- they are not the monk. They are melting hot 😀 ) To celebrate I’ve join the Champaign toast.
Then another friend said ” Hey Yoshizen, I saw you have broken all the rules of Holy man ” ——- ?
Generally, I don’t drink alcohol ( even though I can drink half bottle of spirit in a evening, simply I don’t like it,
as I’ve fed up to take care of drunken guys and anyhow it wouldn’t change me or the world, nor it brings any
solution to any trouble ——- it’s no use mean, waste of the time and the money.
To be cheerful and crazy doesn’t need to be under influence. I am the living sample. Ha Ha Ha 😀 )
I was there to congratulate my friend ( and take photos ) not for any religious, moral campaign.
I don’t need to be obsessed by alcohol, but in the same time I don’t need to be obsessed by the mind
of keeping me perfectly dry. ——– This is, what Buddhist calls MIDDLE WAY. ——- Why is it the
matter to Buddhist ? In the Buddhist teachings, the both obsessions were created by the false
self which has no basis in our mind. In other words, it is the delusion which shouldn’t be exist.
Anyhow it is not daily or even monthly occurrence, (last Wedding occurred two years ago)
to give a toast to the new couple Why not join.
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Another day, I took young lady who said never tasted Sushi to a Japanese restaurant. The man might have
heard this story as well, hence he teased me. 😀
It’s nice to have good food with pretty woman. Have a nice meal together doesn’t necessary carrying hidden
agenda. It’s a clichéd stereotype. Nice meal is the nice meal. Enjoy it and bye-bye. ——- What’s wrong ?
Zen Buddhism is (as it stand on the Mahayana philosophy) to have the freedom of the mind (obsession,
paranoia is the enemy of free mind ) and fulfill the life’s potential to its maximum,
not to miserably vegetated to be a monk’s life.
( So, even a Holy Zenist drunk Champaign, rest of people, not mention the new couple, are all get drunk )
~~~~~~~It was a superb wedding party. Congratulation to the newly wed. ___/\___ 🙂
Freedom — Restriction ?
Freedom under the strict restriction —– people may feel it is the contradiction.
Because they are thinking it in the word / notion but didn’t observe the reality. In reality, there is
no such freedom ever exist like we conceived in the notion. Even the most powerful rich person still has
to live in the oxygen rich air and soon or later has to die. Restriction is the basis of our existence.
Ideally imagined condition, or a story from another world may tell otherwise, still a person was
bound to live within his or her restrictive Karma. But it doesn’t mean there is no freedom to the person.
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If you think about music, in the traditional folk music, even popular Blues, they were composed in the
Pentatonic which is the Natural Tonal System. But its got only five notes ( well, octave higher etc, a bit
more ) ——- from those meager five + notes, how many tunes we human being created in the history ?
Have you ever heard the same tune or melody from different source ? No such thing ever happened in
the isolated situation (culture)—–other than a copy.
Any new tune can be created even from very restricted five notes —- isn’t this Freedom ? Need more ?
Full use of the tonal scale, 12 tone system, or even continuous frequency change of the electronic music
the possibility and the freedom to create new music should be much higher ——— though in the result,
do you remember any of such contemporary music ? ——– It is the evidence of what the unrestricted
freedom had achieved. Theoretically it might be new, but in reality its a trash, nobody give a sit kind.
In political correctness, its free to express any new idea, it must be one’s freedom. But in the same time
others got exactly same right of freedom not to give a damn to such idea. It is the waste of the life.
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There was a funny quote ( sorry I forgot who said this though) ” If the God wished the man to play Foot Ball
he wouldn’t have given the hands to us” 😀
If there was no hand from the beginning, there is no notion of the hand or possibility to image them—-so,
there wouldn’t be any complaint of the restriction not having the hands. Just ply Foot Ball. (no punch up :-))
The notion of the restriction is only a thought of excuse by a person who haven’t actually tried it.
When anybody try long enough, and to know deep enough, there is unlimited possibility and the freedom.
To contemplate ” Who you are” and to build your life in its maximum possibility, is the Zen.
And the Zen Master called this Jizai. ——- Being as Itself.
( Sadly, I noticed so many people stranded on front of the door, puzzling ” Who you are”—-misguided
by the wrong but looks elaborated words, words, words. Look at the mirror, its you. Who else )
———-In the history, J.S. Bach’s music is the best sample of the achievement of such freedom.
You should try listen his ” Art of Fugue”, which was composed from the four notes B, A, C, H.
Its followed strict rule of the ” Counter Point” in the Fugue, to make the variation of those four
note in different order and permutation.—— And created such a universe of mesmerizing
musical time and the space.
His achievement is one of the epoch in the human history.
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